Parents always hope for the best
future for their children. They try to get into the best schools, invest their money
in numerous musical and art lessons and start reading to their infants before birth. Can
any of this help your child become a successful adult?
---------- How the Brain Works
Scientists now recognize that brain connections - called synapses - are the building
blocks for functions such as handling incoming information, expressing emotions and
learning language. Connections are built both by genetics and environmental stimuli.
These paths lay down an internal 'wiring' system that will affect your child's future
abilities for learning and interacting.
'Nation' magazine reports that brain connections are being wired at an extraordinarily
rapid rate in the early years. How can this possibly affect your children?
----------- Children Need Stimulation
The broader range of activities and experiences a child has will increase the connections
made. Clearly, the fact that the greatest growth in connections is made when young
indicates that providing this stimulation early on will affect your child's abilities
later on.
Does this mean that parents with little money are not capable of raising intelligent,
well-balanced children? Does it mean that all children with access to specialized
education will do better?
----------- Children Learn From Play
Educators believe that unstructured play is crucial to brain development. When parent's
guide every activity or bombard their children with planned activities and lessons while
leaving out free play, they do not allow the creativity necessary for social, mental and
emotional skills.
----------- Parents Who Care
Although many would agree that children are strongly affected by their peer group, it is
actually parents who develop a child to become caring, self-assured and well-balanced.
Parent's should never discount the benefits they are providing for their children by being
attentive and responsive to their children.
Children's development also requires emotional connections with parents
and others. When babies are not held, touched and played with they actually form fewer
connections in their brain.
----------- Nature or Nurture
As many experts would acknowledge, brain development can be influenced for good or bad by
the upbringing of our children. However, genetics also play a role that cannot be
discounted. While saying this, there are examples of individuals who appeared to be born
with a genetic disadvantage to their peers and yet surpassed them due to the excellent
parenting that was given to them.
So, what can you do to determine how your children will turn out? Focusing on parental
care and attention is always the best recommendation, and the least expensive. You cannot
guarantee how your children will fare, but they will always be more successful with a
supportive and loving family than without.
Are Babies Born Smart?
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